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28 May 2016

Again, they shocked me!

I wouldn't call it pleasant, it's more like an...hmm amusing lunch, with a couple of dutch colleagues yesterday, I did some thinking, afterwards, and decided, let's never do it again, I was bored, very much!

'People use too much phone...' 'I don't have computer home....' 'We're not interested in new technology....' here you go, they're not interested in knowing phone is no longer a phone today, you can't link to the world without internet, new technology is the motive to get creativity out .... They are not curious, for the world, for what's happening, and for anything outside of their 3 meals per day and maybe some shitty routine....

Human being creates more things because we are more curious than other animals, removing this factor, there isn't much differences left. When you're not curious, you don't live, but only exist, which is fairly sad!

'I don't blame them living in a fairly steady mindset, but I felt that was a conversation between middle age cave man vs. 21st century high tech' - I told my cousin on phone, who is working on developing another social media APP for china market at this moment.... 'Only America and China talk about new technology and accept them, Europe is dead!' - he commented

Yes, this piece of land is dead, I don't know how many times I have told myself so, a born generation Y from Asia, coming to this land where most of the population do not really get out of their milkman cave, that's like chicken and duck, we can't communicate, we talk, but never have a dialogue ....

This is harsh, and emotional, for a Saturday morning, regardless my best friends here in Europe actually are born Europeans, but there is indeed some differences, because I do realize just now I didn't become friends with anyone who do not have expat experiences in life, ever!

With all my respects, I wish, that kind of table discussion, call it sociable or not, please let's not have it ever happen again!

 

02 March 2016

You need them, as much as a fish will need bicycle

4am - Shanghai local time, 9pm - Amsterdam local hour

'He said I'm always angry for nothing...he doesn't understand why...' -- She nearly cried out on the other side of the phone, probably another 'nuit blanche' over there, and she just can't manage her emotion, again

'.......'

For some reasons, my girlfriends like to be consulted by me when they face this type of problems, seriously consider changing my career path to relationship SME or something the like ... if that can make sufficient income to get retired at 45....

'You're not always angry with me, with me you're a lovely person...so that's his problem, not yours...he doesn't understand...hmm that also sounds like his problem, not yours...so what we're trying to resolve here, for him?'

Believe it or not, I consider myself the last person in the universe you want to go to if you need comfort...

'But did I do anything wrong? We were good before...' - Everyone in the universe should be sleeping at 4am, but she's telling a non-sense a story instead, I bet this 'he' is in deep sleep and probably having some nice dreams....

'Well, even you did something terribly wrong, it's still part of you, then it's not wrong. He just needs to choose to accept it or leave it, and when choosing to leave, he can make it more elegant than just making all sound your problems..'

'Every couple starts with something good, otherwise there's no starting....but not every one manage the sustainability, it's the same in business, just look around, even Yahoo has to sell their assets now....'

'I really like him, it's special....' - when a woman falls in love, she's stupid, beyond you can understand....

'But you will like a lot of other people as well, you did before, and will do again in the future....everyone is special in their own way...as long as you want to discover that....how long we have been in this story discussion? Months! They can be used on some beautiful things, when was last time you visited your parents?' ....

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Some while back, I was shocked by 'shy man' theory in the new fashion, maybe I can take a step further in that, they're not shy, they're poor in communication and relationship management, they will be as poor as such in their business life...if you ever think about going with a shy man, here is what I would say, you need them, as much as a fish will need bicycle....

 

12 July 2015

But all, except their sun, is set...

Eternal summer gilds them yet, but all, except their sun, is set - Byron

If this british man will wake up again today, he might share some tears ' but all, except their sun, is set...'

It's rather interesting to talk about Greece with German in this particular period, Germans have a special sense of humor, sometimes it conflicts with their structured nature, and make the stimulation interesting...It's probably mean to make a joke, but if now they leave Germany and move to Greece, 10 years later, I'm sure Greece will be one of they key European power as well, maybe they can rotate to help out...

I don't have a lot of positive or negative impression about Greek or Greece, but 1 thing left me a strong impression, that was a conversation with a Greek colleague recently, over the event that our another colleague received multiple job offers, he said "if he's a native speaker, then even he's stupid he will sound smart...' I didn't comment but smile, and filtered this person out from real friend zone immediately... his comment is an indicator of his inner unbalanced self-esteem... no one is perfect, I do know, but isn't that a minor of today's Greece?