From Paris to The Netherlands

I consider writing ten top reasons to leave here, actually the reasons are way more than ten ; I somehow tried to accept there's different levels of understanding cultural talk , or anything which do worth a thinking , then simply feel disappointed by the conculsion that you could only conduct a kid's conversation with most of them , or you have to behave in a rather childish way to avoid any unnecessary contact with them , as I told one of my colleagues the other day that : if i say you're like the fire , and i'm just the air , you would feel rather happy and take it as a compliment . But Honestly what I meant was without the air , fire simply doesn't exist. Of course that's too complex for them to understand , of course they would say it's difficult  , I meant that's called 'communication' , presenting 1+1=2 thing is called ' simply saying something ' , it might be a type of communication , but it's definitely not what I demand from my ' people' only...

 Het Net client service is a nightmare , you could call 100 times for one internet connection problem , there's just NO ONE wants to be responsible for the problem occurring , they could just keep sending you around for hours , the problem remains the same , but you do pay 0.45 cents per minute for hours , I meant if you're willing to get money without any attitude , there's some other ways which are even easier , for instance , begging on the street !

Traffic here is another nightmare , for 6km in the moring , you do need to count it for at least 30 minutes , simply the car here moves slower than a cow

Public transport is nightmare of nightmare , you could wait on the platform , the train is of course never on time , you could also wait in the train , then they would simply NOTICE you that it's cancelled because the chuffer is ill , we know you don't have many people , but do you have only one chuffer for national railway ?

Privacy simply doesn't exist in this culture , people are so curious , you don't know why they're so curious and you would never know ... They could question you for everything without sensing that it's just personal;they could stand right behind your computer screen , staring at what you're typing for your personal email without noticing how rude it is; They could just shouting their language and sending Dutch emails in an international working environment without respecting there's more than 20 expats who don't understand their minor language;They could spy on your life by making comments on with whom you go out , with whom you have a lunch, with whom you take coffees ... They simply want to know everything , I always wonder how come they CARE so much about the others' life ,if you tell them , they would try to know more and more , if you don't , they would say you don't want to talk to them ... Is there really nothing else to talk about but privacy?  

Earthquake in China , not much to say , when my new job settles , I will be in that part of China for one month to help MY People , not much I could do , but I will do my best , we're heart connected ...

China and Chinese government show what should be done during this disaster , this new leading party worths a respect , I love them , as much as I love my country , my language , my culture , my people ...

I believe there's always a place in people's mind , where you find a piece of memory which you can't erase ;

I believe there's always a moment in the night , when you heavily think, doubt and have questions to raise ;

I believe if the heart knows where the harmony would be, heart distances wouldn't be created ;

The moon light in the city , please warm his heart ,

after all these separation and tears start ;

The moon light in the city , please be there and pray for him ,

after all the pieces fallen apart ;

The moon light in the city , just promise ,

if once we meet again , let the happiness cover the entire night ...